It is the truth in the stereotype that is objectionable.
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To a quite unwreckable Lie,
To a most impeccable Lie!
To a water-tight, fire-proof, angle-iron, sunk-hinge, time-lock, steel-faced Lie!
Not a private hansom Lie,
But a pair-and-brougham Lie,
Not a little-place-at-Tooting, but a country-house-with-shooting
And a ring-fence-deer-park Lie.
—-Kipling
It is the truth in the stereotype that is objectionable.
Your terrible secret is that you have no terrible secret.
The successful liar is never forgiven for showing us how tawdry the stories are in which we are eager to believe.
Sometimes one lies to avoid the appearance of lying.
Beneath our surface of deceit and pretense lies a core of pretense and deceit.